Give yourself plenty of leeway.
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Give yourself plenty of leeway.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
We are all addicted to the drug of suffering.
"Žene su medicina." CheQweesh Auh-ho-oh (prastanovnik Amerike, pleme Chumash)
Svaki dan je dobar za upiranje.
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„Malo je života bez šavova i zakrpa… Ne može! Čovjek je proklet! On bi htio i dugo da živi i da mu bude lijepo. E, a to je malo teže. Ne može! Može dugo, ali iz parčića. Pogledajte, svako od nas nosi neku zakrpu…
Svakome se primijeti gdje je šav, nekome na licu, nekome u očima, nekome u glasu! Svi smo mi krpljeni i sastavljani iz mnogo djelova.
Mi više volimo život, nego život nas. U tome je stvar! A ako ga tako volimo, onda nije red da ga ogovaramo i da mu nalazimo mane. Je l’ tako?!”
Ako ne postoji razlog da se pije, to nije razlog da se ne pije...
"U suštini, jedini grijeh koji nikada ne praštamo jedni drugima jeste drugačije mišljenje." R. V. Emerson
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Na hipnozi
"The harder you fight, the more relaxed you'll
become.
The more you fight, the more you surrender."
Pogrešna razmišljanja dovode do usamljenosti.
Eto tako.
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"Da je lako čovjek biti,bilo bi manje međunacinalne mržnje i sukoba"
Tree be like: hold my beer!
https://www.cdm.me/zabava/zanimljivo...je-jedno-drvo/
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Samo sebe možeš pobijediti.
Samo oni koji se usude uvelike podbaciti, mogu uspjeti u velikoj mjeri.
Tajna je neprijatelj intimnosti.Svaka zdrava veza je izgrađena na temelju iskrenosti i povjerenja..
"Conscious parents understand that the child they need to raise is the child within themselves.
We all need Conscious Parenting to heal and free ourselves, our children, and evolve the planet.
The reason of wanting a child comes from our inner desires and needs.
Acknowledging our ego is the first step toward creating accountability.
Once we become aware, we will start to watch our actions. Shifts will start to happen.
Relationship between child and parents is the first prototype of all relationships.
Every child wishes to be seen, validated and unconditionally accepted.
The more the parent fails to recognize the child for its essence, the greater will be the split between the child’s true self and false self.
Part of the awakening process is to release our own parents from our expectations.
Only through persistent awareness, we can stop unconsciously passing down emotional baggage onto our children.
The idea of 'being natural' at parenting is the reason of our guilt and shame.
A conscious parent is born from the decision we make to evolve.
Conscious attunement teaches us to open all senses in the present moment and to tune into our children's essence.
Remember: every moment matters.
Projection is a reflexive emotional habit where we put our feelings and thoughts onto others.
Projection causes conflict between us and children.
Our children know what they feel and understand who they are.
Conscious pause gives us space to detach from our egoic ideation."
"The desire for happiness sets up resistance, and resistance creates suffering.
The idea of life being non-pain is an illusion. All children should experience the present moment fully.
Success cannot be defined in a narrow matrix based on society.
Conscious parents are called to deconstruct the fears of this societal pressure. Most of the belief systems we adopt from culture are based on fear.
Cultural archetypes about our daily living can plant seeds of disconnection with our children.
The awareness of our cultural archetypes gives us the power of choice.
Right beneath our strong reaction lies our deepest fear.
Our fears are not our default setup: we have adopted them from culture and upbringing.
Be aware of the root of your fear and prepare to learn how to transform it into courage.
Besides creating disconnection, being a fearful parent can also lead to shaping a fearful child.
The more we attach to the ‘shoulds’ the more we suffer.
Most of our fears are geared to the potential threat in the future.
Living in the present, and accepting the present moment as-is engenders courage. Our expectations are conditioned by the cultural archetypes.
Anytime we depend one an external source for joy, we create suffering. Expectations create the conditional kind of love.
To engage emphatically, we need to release our expectations and agendas".
"Our assumption about love can be simplistic and misguided.
We need to move out of attachment-based love and enter transcendent and conscious love.
Only when we are full within and see our worth fully, we can guide our children to meet their needs.
Presence is the capacity to enter the present moment, letting go of the past and the future.
The best way to learn the power of presence is to listen to our children.
Pause allows you to step away, recognise triggers, and enter a state of neutrality. Our self acceptance is the only path to accepting our children.
Most of us were raised on a diet of not-good-enoughness. Unless we are aware, we will continue passing this onto our children.
Our children are not our children. They come through us, but not from us.
What’s best for our children is to learn how to honour and celebrate themselves as unique beings.
Our children need to feel that we have trust in their strength and resilience. Judgement comes out of the false sense of superiority.
Having duality of labels shows that we are living in unconsciousness.
Compassion allows us to enter an expansion from within.
Through self-understanding, we begin to understand all expressions of others."
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"Culture has ingrained us with set expectations around “good” and “bad” labels.
When we put labels, we limit our children’s infinite potential.
Children’s behaviours invite us to look deeper into what their needs are.
Children want to be seen and accepted for their ‘being’ state, without the ‘doing’. When we disconnect from the true selves, we created an ego shell to protect ourselves.
Our children are our teachers.
Spiritual guides focus on the internal essence of children.
Spiritual Guides realign their energies to focus on the process, not the goal.
Spiritual Guides are detached from how the children experience life.
Nature has the capacity to detach from the outcome, to let go, and stay in the moment.
Everything in nature has an antidote to balance the energies out.
Entering the antidotal power means to provide the other side of the spectrum of energy.
Most of us are reactors. We have forgotten how to feel our feelings.
We can feel the feelings without the need to express them on anyone.
When we acknowledge the needs of the inner child the desire for worth from the outside disappear.
We need to be attuned to our body’s reactivity to be aware of our feelings.
With this awareness, comes compassion.
Only then, we can offer an invitation to our children to see the needs of their inner child."
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"Desire to control others is a distraction from the control over ourselves.
It is constructed over decades of feeling deep inner helplessness.
We need to shift the energy from control to being an ally and a guide.
Spiritual Guide empowers children to make conscious choices for
themselves.
The traditional paradigm of discipline is an adult temper tantrum.
We need to daringly release all notions of discipline and step into the new
energy where the main focus is to empower.
Conscious boundaries begin with the parents, so parents can be the cocreators
of the children’s reality.
We cannot set a boundary that we, ourselves, don’t have in our own lives.
We need to be clear about our motivations in setting the boundaries. Does it serve our ego in any way?
Natural consequences arise organically from the cause.
Cause and effect is the most natural way of existence.
Kids should negotiate with adults.
Only consciousness can evaporate the barriers between us and our
children.
All true connection emerges from one place only; our connection to
ourselves.
We don’t need to tell our children what to do. We need to evoke their own
sense of inner connectivity".
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