Would bosniak parents allow a German muslim as boyfriend/husband?

**GuterJung** · 20-12-12, 23:43

@AL no1
What?

And @davorp
That ain't even a bit funny.

**the_sorrow** · 21-12-12, 15:17

You should change your name from Guter to Safet. Safet is common name among bosniaks, and it would help a lot , if you want her parrents to like you.

**GuterJung** · 21-12-12, 16:16

You know Guter isn't a name, hm?
It's a German word for good!

***NSX*** · 21-12-12, 16:18

Guter..Günter

**AL no1** · 21-12-12, 16:20

Guter is serbian name,like ...Dobrica,you must to change that !

**the_sorrow** · 21-12-12, 16:45

Originally Posted by GuterJung

You know Guter isn't a name, hm?
It's a German word for good!

It doent matter, if it is not Safet , its no good for them. You dont know bosniaks.

**GuterJung** · 21-12-12, 17:05

Ok, sorry guys but please let us stop with this "name" sh** cause it's bulls***
You just really don't understand that it's not a NAME or you just tryna fool me like 10 year old kids, sorry.

I posted a question in a serious way, so please give me serious answers to it.

**frnjok** · 22-12-12, 12:09

You made a few wrong assumptions in your question, the most obvious being that a Muslim (or as you put it"Bosniak" not a "Bosnian") girl would only marry a Muslim. And not just a Muslim but a "born Muslim". Very wrong and very presumptuous. Not the case at all in general when we talk about Montenegrin Muslims. So, that's a general state of affairs but your mileage may be and it looks like it IS different. The next assumption you made is about Germans and how we (or as you put it "Balkan People") like or dislike them when it comes to marriage. Again, in general terms, (normal) people don't care that much if you are a German or Irish. If they came from some "back of Woop Woop" place then you might be out of luck not because you are a German but because they just want someone from their own village. Good luck!

PS: Maybe you think your question was serious but it was almost too ignorant to be taken seriously by the wider forum populace.

**GuterJung** · 22-12-12, 16:02

Sounds waaay better, thank you

Of course I know that they'd only marry one but I wrote boyfriend too just for the "What if".
And the main topic is "German guy".

So all in all you can that it's always possible even when they act very traditional, but at the end of the day they only want the best for their kids, lime every other parents in the world? Even if they don't like a German in their family at the first moment, they WILL get used to it?
And when they're are from a city with more than 1.000 people the tradition CAN be broken even when there can be exceptions too?

***NSX*** · 22-12-12, 16:19

Originally Posted by GuterJung

Even if they don't like a German in their family at the first moment,

at the first moment traditional parents here usually want to get rid of their daughters so don't worry they won't look at you as a part of their family

**RiddicK** · 22-12-12, 18:55

Originally Posted by GuterJung

Ok, sorry guys but please let us stop with this "name" sh** cause it's bulls***
You just really don't understand that it's not a NAME or you just tryna fool me like 10 year old kids, sorry.

I posted a question in a serious way, so please give me serious answers to it.

Dude listen , we are a nation that likes to joke a lot, you obviously do not understand them and I get that, not all countries have a sense of humor (hihihi), first of all ,you asked us a not so serious question assuming that if they had a war in there (I mean the girls family )they may be some religious haters,so I do not know how will they react if I am a newbie German muslim,it is the same as if I want to go to Germany on vacation and be worry if they will put me in a GAS CHAMBER (familiar?) In Montenegro is 2012 and believe it or not we also have a bunch of people sitting in their caves with iPhone 5 in their hands, do not shoot our neigbours ,and finally never in newer history had a war, not counting the 2 your country started :P ...Geez, I am offended...worse...offended in english by a German guy .

**frnjok** · 23-12-12, 02:08

Originally Posted by GuterJung

So all in all you can that it's always possible even when they act very traditional, but at the end of the day they only want the best for their kids, lime every other parents in the world? Even if they don't like a German in their family at the first moment, they WILL get used to it?
And when they're are from a city with more than 1.000 people the tradition CAN be broken even when there can be exceptions too?

Yes, they will get used to it, if they want to stay and live in Germany. When they moved to live over there, in their sub-consciousness they knew they had to adjust and integrate into the German culture. If they wanted to just get in, make some money and come back home that might be a bit harder case but at the end of the day their daughter has her own life and she will eventually learn to make her own decisions regardless of what her parents like or dislike. There is nothing free in life, if they wanted to live in Germany that is the price they will have to pay.

**Mad_dog_KO** · 23-12-12, 02:21

I thought I had already seen the most retarded topic ever, but this is a completely new level.

***NSX*** · 23-12-12, 04:53

Originally Posted by Mad_dog_KO

I thought I had already seen the most retarded topic ever, but this is a completely new level.

but it somehow lacks this...

**GuterJung** · 23-12-12, 05:41

Originally Posted by Mad_dog_KO

I thought I had already seen the most retarded topic ever, but this is a completely new level.

If there wasn't some rules on here I'd give you 2 tiny words, but forget it!

What's up with you?
I simply know just one from your country (personally) and because of that I use this thing where I find MANY of you at one place, cause it's hard to get some informations about you guys.
Where's the damn problem?

**the_sorrow** · 23-12-12, 13:22

^ They are chetniks. They didnt like you from the start, it was obvious.

**Mad_dog_KO** · 23-12-12, 13:28

Uncle Draza, uncle Draza, prepare some salads...

**RiddicK** · 23-12-12, 15:28

Originally Posted by GuterJung

If there wasn't some rules on here I'd give you 2 tiny words, but forget it!

What's up with you?
I simply know just one from your country (personally) and because of that I use this thing where I find MANY of you at one place, cause it's hard to get some informations about you guys.
Where's the damn problem?

now i finally realize why are you afraid to talk to your girl parents...

**GuterJung** · 23-12-12, 18:57

Then please tell me whats so retarded on this thread?
It's my mistake when this guy got a problem with it hm?

**Mad_dog_KO** · 23-12-12, 19:07

Originally Posted by GuterJung

Then please tell me whats so retarded on this thread?
It's my mistake when this guy got a problem with it hm?

Why the **** would parents of a Bosniak (Muslim) girl have any problems with accepting a Muslim from Germany? Question is sick.
I would understand if you asked about a Bosniak girl - Christian boy combination (although it's also sick imo).

It's like asking would a French family accept a boy from Andorra as a man for their daughter.

**Mstislav** · 23-12-12, 19:16

I would suggest that you convert to catholicism and find girl from ljubuški which is also in bosnia, because those girls are best.
I have met (if you know what i mean) girl from ljubuški and she did something with her tongue, i cant even describe in my language let alone in english.

**GuterJung** · 23-12-12, 20:44

Originally Posted by Mad_dog_KO

Why the **** would parents of a Bosniak (Muslim) girl have any problems with accepting a Muslim from Germany? Question is sick.
I would understand if you asked about a Bosniak girl - Christian boy combination (although it's also sick imo).

It's like asking would a French family accept a boy from Andorra as a man for their daughter.

Ok, then I'm sorry man.
Sure, you're right with that!
I'm just asking because MANY of muslim families that live here would have a problem with that.
And because I already had those sh** in the past one time, I just wanna make sure it ain't happens again, because I don't know anything about you, like I said.
That's why I post that kind of question on here, even when it sounds stupid to you. I just wanted to know how you think about that.