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    Would they allow their daughters to have a German boyfriend/husband who is muslim since a couple of years?

    Let's say both of them, boy and girl + their parents are living in Germany.
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    No.
    Those are worst.
    If he was muslim since 6 years ago or since 1 year ago then ok, but few years no way.
    Any good bosnian parent would say no to that relationship.
    Ја чекам посао али волим ову земљу!



    А што пијем кад ми шкоди
    ко ће кући да ме води?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mstislav View Post
    If he was muslim since 6 years ago or since 1 year ago then ok, but few years no way.
    Took the wrong word, sorry!
    I mean a couple of years (4 years!!)



    But I don't really understand you post.
    Since 6 years or 1 year ago then it's ok. But a few years not!
    Where's the difference?
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    keine Sorge..Eltern in Montenegro lieben jemanden der Geld hat
    She is only here to annoy herself!

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    Ehhh ja, genau


    Hatte ja auf vernünftigere Antworten gehofft, von wegen "wieviel wert wird auf die Nationalität usw gelegt", jetzt mal völlig abgesehen von allem anderen.

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    Could somebody translate my question that users from Montenegro can answer too?!

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    this is English only subforum so..everyone knows English here, supposedly

    maybe my answer sounded like joke to you but that's our very sad reality, and it's such with every religion here
    She is only here to annoy herself!

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    Yea but like I said, let's say all of them live in Germany.
    So money isn't a big problem for them anymore.

    Or do you mean, the guy needs to have a good and save job to make sure that he can take care of their daughter?
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    yes that is true
    She is only here to annoy herself!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    Would they allow their daughters to have a German boyfriend/husband who is muslim since a couple of years?

    Let's say both of them, boy and girl + their parents are living in Germany.
    Thats hard to say. Its individual and if he is a normal guy I think they would get over it after some time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    Took the wrong word, sorry!
    I mean a couple of years (4 years!!)



    But I don't really understand you post.
    Since 6 years or 1 year ago then it's ok. But a few years not!
    Where's the difference?
    oh man , four years is even worse than 2 ...can that guy lie to her parents and just say he is a muslim for about 6 years...do not judge me ,just trying to help here
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    Why is 2 years better than 4?

    Sorry man, but I don't understand anything of you two posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mojsije View Post
    Thats hard to say. Its individual and if he is a normal guy I think they would get over it after some time.
    That's what I was thinking too.
    So you can say, most of the parents are against Germans, no matter if muslim or not (or does it really makes a difference if he's one or not? A "normal" katholic German would never have a chance?).
    But when they see that the girl is happy with him they'll accept it because honestly they want the best for their daughter which is much more important than nationality and all that stuff.
    Plus a muslim which believes in all that knows much more about their way of raising kids, having/wanting a family and all that traditional stuff.

    ???
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    Quote Originally Posted by NSX View Post
    this is English only subforum so..everyone knows English here, supposedly

    maybe my answer sounded like joke to you but that's our very sad reality, and it's such with every religion here
    speaking of english, this sounds a bit odd

    it is more appropriate to say 'my answer may sound' and 'our very sad reality' sounds a bit stragne too, bring some colloquial feeling in here

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    Why is 2 years better than 4?

    Sorry man, but I don't understand anything of you two posts.
    He's trolling you.

    Unless they're fundies there won't be any problems. But it depends I guess, everyone's different, and in the end, **** them it's up to that girl.
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    Would Bosnian parents allow.... what, is this some kind of arranged marriage?
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    Bosniak, not Bosnian

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    That wasn't my point. I understand that you are both Muslims but trust me, we live in a 21st. century, you don't need her parents approval if she loves you and vice versa. Besides, if you really care about their approval, you shouldn't be here posting this question, why don't you go at your girlfriends house and have a word with her parents?
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    Because you hearing bad storys from many different corners, even when a girl from x country wants to marry a guy from the same one.


    And I've already read that people from the balkan are not talking very good about German guys.
    Maybe because the mean "real" christian Germans, but I don't know.


    That's why I'm asking some people on here.
    Just to make sure we wont get in big trouble or anything like that.
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    what bad stories? are you afraid that her father will shoot you or..?
    She is only here to annoy herself!

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    Not that bad

    But things like her family could outcast her like "Ohh my god how the hell can you do that? No are not longer my daughter if you don't stop that NOW!" and all those sh***.
    Sounds stupid but, it happens very often.


    Or isn't it that hard in your country? Are there outcasts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    Not that bad

    But things like her family could outcast her like "Ohh my god how the hell can you do that? No are not longer my daughter if you don't stop that NOW!" and all those sh***.
    Sounds stupid but, it happens very often.

    Or isn't it that hard in your country? Are there outcasts?
    did ever came to your mind , I do not know...for example...Oh should I go to speak with her dad about the situation...I do not want her to be in some kind of dispute with her parents..AND ALL THAT SH...as you said it ...
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    Let me quote myself to answer your post.

    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    That's why I'm asking some people on here.
    Just to make sure we wont get in big trouble or anything like that.

    Of course I would, but before I would do it, I just wanted to know what I have to expect, nothing more!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuterJung View Post
    Would they allow their daughters to have a German boyfriend/husband who is muslim since a couple of years?

    Let's say both of them, boy and girl + their parents are living in Germany.
    Yes,but u need to change the name and nickname !
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    If I were you, I'd first check if the girls mother is maybe a witch. You never know mate, she could easily cast a spell on you so that your willy falls off on your first wedding night.
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